FRIEND

     

 

 

          Friend is someone who has touched your heart and will stay there. Someone you care for, who cares for you. Someone you can do the stupidest things around and always be forgiven. Someone you will instantly remember in ten years because they are in your heart and not just your mind. They have the ability to change you, even if they do not. They will be etched in your memories forever. (Urban Dictionary)

          In today's lifestyle, is there any friend will not betray you? It is hard to find any friend that will not betray you. Maybe not in front of you, maybe you did not know about it. You will have it even for once. You will feel how bad is your life when you know that your own friend betray you. It is really hurt! It is all about trust. You must trust your own friend but not 100%. You can share anything with your friend but not everything. There is something that you must keep as your own secret such as your ATM card pin code. You have to take your own risk if anything happen.

         Friend is friend but boyfriend is boyfriend. If you are fall in love with your own friend either girl/boy, you are in trouble! If anything happen, it will affect your friendship. It is hard to accept your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend as your friend after they hurt you. So, you have to think before do anything. You must avoid to be in a relationship with your friend. Just find someone else but not your friend to be your girlfriend/boyfriend.

          There is no category for friend because we have to be friend with everyone. Even we know that any of our friend are fake, we must accept it. It is too hard for us to take care of people's heart. If we always think about others, how about is? Who will think about us? Is there any? We do not know, right? So, it is better if we just ignore and do not trust the 'fakers' but treat them like a best friend. Just be nice to everyone because one day, they will realize what they do are wrong!

 

"Prophet Muhammad have thousands of the enemy, we are ordinary people will also have enemies"

         For me, as a friend, we must be a good friend to everyone. We must behave our attitude such as the way we talk with our friend. Some of them will feel what we are doing is too much but it is okay for us. We do not have to trust our friend 100% but we must trust them. As friend, we should not betray our friend because I know how hurt it is when our own friend betray us. If they ask to keep anything as a secret, we must keep it as a secret. We must be there for our friend in any situation. A good friend will be there for laugh and cry together. If we just laugh but not cry with our friend, we must do something to change that. If you find a good friend, just let them to be your best friend forever. Trust me, you will know how happy your life with your true friend is.

         Life is too short. You have to be friend with everyone. You do not have to judge others and avoid from being friend with them. People who you do not want to be friend, maybe they will come to help you when you need help. For example, do your homework or assignments. Maybe they will give you money to eat when you do not have money. Then, where is your friend? Are they be there when you need help? Absolutely, not! So, you do not have to hate anyone. Just be nice with everyone. Help them, do not betray them, and do not say something bad about them. You should think about it. No one will help you to change your lifestyle except you! Change your mind, clean your heart, choose the best person to create a friendship but with the one who have bad attitude, you should be friend with them but not trust them. It is in your hand. Good luck!